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Kamilah MS

How Hard are You Willing to Work for Your Marriage?
It is NEVER too late to rekindle our marriages and we could find reasons to remind ourselves why we got married every once in a while or as frequently as we possibly could. Human beings can be forgetful so we need to set intentional reminders even for the sake of our marital health. Typically after

Kamilah MS Celebrates Two Years Anniversary!
I am grateful for the fact that I get to persevere through the ups and downs of my life in general and to be able to find a business that serves my purpose is one factor that gives me fulfilment in my life today. Throughout my career life, be it in the health, financial or

Self-Care Can be Overrated and Underrated
I always tell people and my clients that self-care is overrated and underrated at the same time. It’s overrated when healthy adults frequently used self-care to excuse themselves from being kind towards others, from taking care of their duties at home or work or when they simply went AWOL or when they’ve been given self-care

How to Overcome Struggles in Life?
I used to struggle a lot in life and while the struggle is completely normal and that we need to go through them, I realise that with self-mastery we can significantly reduce our struggles and eliminate suffering too! I am sharing from my personal experience and from working with thousands of people over the years

How to Declutter our Minds?
When we chance upon the word decluttering, we thought of the hit Netflix series of Tidying Up with Marie Kondo. We would have imagined the unwanted clutter that we typically see at homes or workplaces. Mental decluttering is no different except that we do not declutter tangible things. So what do we declutter when it

Implications of a ‘Cancel Culture’ Society?
Everyone deserves to experience inner peace no matter how bad our mistakes were or how unforgiving our society could be. Inner peace is readily available for all. In this blog post, I would like to share about cancel culture in our society and how can we neutralise the effect of cancel culture through understanding the

How to Listen without Judgement?
As human beings, we are given a pair of ears to hear and listen. Listening is a very important communication skill to have. Have you ever been so frustrated with another person for misunderstanding the words you said or when they had misconstrued the sentences that came out of your mouth or when someone misread

How Can We Express Ourselves while Creating a Safe Space for Self-Expression?
As human beings, we express ourselves through facial expressions, body language, tone of voice, action or inaction and through speaking. I define freedom as the ability to express myself without the fear of judgement from others. I get to be myself with all my mistakes, emotions, choices and more. Sometimes people with this mindset ended

Can we live with fear?
Fear is a four-letter word that can sometimes cripples us, stops us on our tracks and makes us react in ways that could save our lives or can ruin our day for no valid reason. I am going to share about fear in a general sense and will not discuss illnesses relating to fear such

What does it mean to thrive?
Do you find yourself waking up each morning, refusing to wake up and snoozing your alarm and running late almost every day to work, rushing through the day to complete your task, getting into misunderstandings with family members or colleagues and then you got back home ready for the next day to come and repeat

How to Find Your Life Purpose?
Our minds are often thinking about stuff and are always occupied. In those thoughts, we may only see a glimpse of what could be our life purpose. Sometimes we confuse life purpose as our roles and responsibilities, skills, talents and what others expect us to do. In my experience, getting to know my life purpose

Science Behind Reiki Healing
I am a Reiki Master and I often got asked, what is the science behind reiki? You’ve probably heard people talk about the placebo effect in relation to reiki and energy healing. Now, of course, having an open mind, a positive outlook and the belief that a treatment will help is definitely going to enhance

What to Do When Your Child Experienced Cyber Bullying?
I am a mother of four children. Two boys aged fifteen and thirteen and boy-girl twins who are seventeen months old. I advocate happy parenting since 2009 and I have been doing my research on effective parenting since the first was born. I read books after books, watched super nanny and subscribed to parenting magazines. I

Is it too late to apologise?
Every day we interact with people in our lives and there’s bound to be misunderstandings, miscommunication and mistakes. Over the years and with self-mastery, I see the ups and downs of communication as excitement and no longer see it as pain and suffering but of course, we do not want to create relationships that are

How to Create a Conducive Home Environment?
We spend time at home, some more than the other and some less than the other. How we relate to the place we call home can affect our quality of life. Our home is our sanctuary and we must take good care of this sanctuary. Last week, I discuss what it means to have a

Keys to Self-Mastery
In K Mummy’s focus group session 13, we explored what are the keys to self-mastery. First, let me share that to practice self-mastery in any areas that is important to us in our lives, be it in the area of money, work, health, spirituality, life purpose, exercise and more, we need to be able to

Three Things to Let Go to be Able to Heal
I struggled throughout adolescence and adulthood not knowing that I needed to heal from upsetting events throughout my life. I bulldozed through life, chasing after my dreams and goals with the hopes that it would make me be someone that I’m proud to be. That was my mistake. I needed to heal from abuse, heal

Want Self-Mastery as a Parent?
As an advocate of happy parenting, I am a firm believer that happy children will grow up to be happy adults and it begins from home, of course as human beings we experience all kinds of emotions, being a happy parent does not mean that we are being happy all the time, it is simply
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Breaking the Cycle: How Negativity and Complaining Affect Personal Growth and Tips for Focusing on Self-Mastery Instead
Humans, by nature, are wired to seek pleasure and avoid pain. However, research in psychology and neuroscience has shown that humans are not always solely attracted to pleasure. We often find ourselves being attracted to negative emotions, which include complaining, suffering, and negativity. It has been observed that not everyone associates success or victories with
Self-Mastery is about Noticing Your Red Flags Too
As humans, we all have a set of behaviors, habits, and tendencies that can either help or hinder our growth and progress in life. These red flags are like warning signs that signal us to take a step back and evaluate our choices and actions. But what happens when we fail to notice or acknowledge
Growth Mindset Will Only Brings Us Closer to Our Goals
I competed against the best of the best from my club who were finalists in a Toastmasters speaking contest and I did not get to proceed to the next level. Although I was not able to see the performances of all of my fellow contestants, I get to see at least two fellow contestants performed
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